Wednesday 24 June 2015

Brunch Date Ideas

More than just instagram fodder for rich and famous twenty-somethings, brunch is a meal that manages to be settling, savoury and cheekily sweet all in one go. It’s so wonderful that not even first date nerves can taint it. In fact, it’s the ideal date situation; none of the formality of dinner nor the platonic vibe of lunch, and even if you overdo it on bloody marys you’re unlikely to be at risk of drinking yourself under the table. Even if the date itself is a disaster, it won’t have been a total waste because you will still have eaten brunch! Brunch is never a waste. Here’s where we recommend for a getting-to-know-you over a plateful of that sacred breakfast lunch combo:




                                                    
Tucked away in the backstreets between Westminster and Pimlico since 1946, Regency’s art-deco exterior and Formica-topped tables are true greasy spoon originals. You order at the counter before getting your table, and although there’s a permanent queue it’s fast moving and gives you time to decide what you want to order. This isn’t much of a dilemma though - arrive hungry and go for the set breakfast of egg, bacon, sausages, beans, toast and tea or coffee for £5.50. Slick service, huge portions, and your order is announced loudly from the counter when it’s ready. This is a charming piece of old London and definitely worth a visit.




Going to the Wolsely comes with a luxury sense of occasion; book a table in advance and impress your date with a morning of refined grandeur that’s somehow cosy at the same time. The Full English is well worth the food coma that comes after it, the scrambled eggs and smoked salmon offers a lighter, similarly tasty alternative, and the huge choice of pain au delicious pastries shouldn’t be ruled out either. Its lesser known sibling, The Delauney, is another special spot worth visiting.



Go early to avoid queues (before 10am), and order a takeaway coffee for while you’re waiting if you do get there a little later. The Australian themed menu puts a light, healthier slant on your traditional brunch choices and is particularly known for its magically fluffy scrambled eggs and ricotta hot cakes. The bright, relaxed atmosphere of Granger & Co is ideal for easy conversation with your date while you eat.



Situated within Peckham Road’s South London Gallery, No. 67 boasts a soaring space, huge windows and bright natural light. Whether you’re seated inside or out in one of the winding gardens, it’s a brilliant place for brunch followed by a browse through the gallery’s exhibitions. The ‘Full Spanglish’ is a particularly popular Spanish-fusion option that we would recommend.



Kopapa offers creative, innovative fusion meals throughout the day, but their weekend brunch between 9am and 4pm is particularly unique and not to be missed. Try not to arrive before your sweet tooth kicks in for the day, because the salted caramel shake is to die for. Whether you go for lighter options like their fruit salad and granola mix or something a little heartier, such as their renowned ‘Turkish Eggs’, the unusual blend of tastes won’t disappoint.




Greenberry is more than just another of Primrose Hill’s pop-up cafes; it has a comfortable, fresh atmosphere and menu to match, both of which are worth going there for. The later it gets the more it fills up with families and dogwalkers on a weekend, but if you’re there early-ish or on a weekday you can get breakfast with an inoffensive twist and enjoy it in the café’s lovely interior. Hickory smoked baked beans and chorizo on toast are amazing if you fancy something warming, and ordering their quinoa porridge is a quicker and probably more delicious alternative to making that health-craze porridge variation yourself. 



40 floors up, Duck and Waffle at the Heron Tower isn’t a bad place to have brunch. Many of the window tables (these have the best views) are for two diners only, making this an ideal restaurant for a date. Prices are also sky high, but with the glass lift and panoramic vistas of London, you’re paying for more than your food. Opt for the signature dish of duck and waffle; it might seem like an unusual combination but let the success of the place speak for itself and trust that it’s a tasty dish!


Tuesday 23 June 2015

How To Fill Out Your Online Dating Profile

Dont worry if you draw a blank when asked to introduce yourself in three words or with an interesting fact; most of our members say that the self-description aspect is the toughest part about the entire online dating process. To make it simpler we’ve put together some tips and examples on how to turn your clichés into quirks and help your personality come through as much as it can in those few short sentences.



1.     Straight to the point

Of course you want your description to say as much about you as possible, but that doesn’t mean you need to write an essay. If you focus on just a few interesting things about yourself it will make you stand out in the crowd more than someone who tells their whole life story.

2. Honesty is the best policy

Lying on your profile is not going to get you anywhere! Whether you lie in your description or elsewhere on your profile (e.g. about your height or age), it won’t help you past the first date. As soon as you meet them the truth will come out, and besides, why base your relationship on dishonesty?


3.     Be specific

Lists of adjectives don’t make an impact. Saying you’re ‘loyal, funny and down to earth’ is meaningless when there are thousands of other profiles that promise the same. Saying you’re ‘a fan of comedy films and pop music’ is also pretty unremarkable. Instead, focus on what makes you unique. If you do love comedies, what’s your favourite? If you’re a traveller, where is the best place you’ve been? Where do you dream of going one day? Music, sport, theatre, art, TV, literature… Tell us why you love it; tell us specifics that you love! Detail makes you more personable, makes you stand out, and makes it easier for someone to start a conversation; all of which will help you with getting a date.

4.     Modesty

While it’s great to be confident, boasting is unattractive. There’s a clear line between the two – we recommend that you don’t cross it! If you’re unsure about your profile in this respect, why not ask a friend or family member to read over it? They’ll be able to tell you if you’re blowing your own trumpet too much.


Things you could include in your personal description –

·      Hobbies and pastimes
·      Who you like spending time with
·      When you’re happiest
·      What qualities are most important to you in a partner
·      Your best quality
·      Something you’re proud of
·      Achievements
·      Favourite memories
·      Favourite food
·      Favourite film
·      Favourite band (…you get the idea!)

And don’t forget – whatever you choose, make it unique to you! Now head back to HelloYou to give it a go.
Good Luck!



Tuesday 9 June 2015

Online Dating Tips

Navigating the dating scene can certainly be challenging, and it's especially tough to know how to present yourself online. How can you show who you are with just a tiny description box, or ensure that your profile will attract the kind of person you want to date?

 

 Streamline your search for that special someone with these tips and tricks for optimising your online dating experience:

Fill up your profile

The fuller your profile is, the more interest it will attract, so it’s important to make sure it’s complete with pictures and a personal description that’s unique to you. Investing thought and effort into your profile will go a long way. 

Love at first sight… 

Your photo is the first thing a potential date will see - so it needs to be current, clear and welcoming; one that encourages someone to read further. Use it to show yourself in your best light; a photo that shows you looking natural and happy doing something you enjoy will be more attractive than one that’s overly formal or clichéd. This means avoid sunglasses, selfies and group shots where no one can tell who you are!



Be specific in your self-description

Just like with your photos, you want to avoid clichés in your personal description. Even if you are loyal, fun and easy-going, so many other profiles say the exact same thing that you’ll never stand out from the crowd. Instead, be specific! If you’re proud of the lobster fishing business you developed from scratch, then say so! Whether you love racing cars, medieval architecture, 1980’s rom-coms or all three – let us know in your profile. Not only does this offer an insight into your personality but it gives plenty of scope to get a conversation started. 

Don’t just wait for them to come to you!

You’re more likely to meet the right person if you actively look for them, rather than just hoping they’ll pop up in front of you. Is there something specific you’re looking for in a partner, or a certain hobby you’d love them to share? Instead of leaving it up to chance, use our browser to tailor your search.

Don’t be afraid to make the first move

Male members are traditionally more proactive online, but a lot of men also say that they find it refreshing when a woman starts up a conversation first. While it’s easier said than done, there really is no reason to be afraid to make the first move. You never know what can happen unless you try! Keep things short to start with – asking a question about something in their profile is a good way to begin – and don’t be disheartened or take it personally if they don’t always respond!

How to begin a conversation

Keep your first message short, but make it clear that you have read their profile. If it says they love film, ask them what their favourite movies are; if they love travelling, ask them about where they’ve been. Starting a conversation with a generic, one-word greeting won’t make you seem like an interesting person, and they’ll be less likely to reply, whereas an interesting question will get conversation flowing right away.  

Moving things offline

Don’t let online messaging go on for too long. Remember; you’re talking to a real person at the other end of the computer and you’re looking for a real relationship – there’s no point letting it build up too much online in case it doesn’t materialize in real life. But don’t put too much pressure on yourself when taking a potential date from online into real life. Sometimes online chemistry doesn’t translate when you’re face to face, and that’s ok! It doesn’t mean it will be the same for every date you go on so don’t be too disappointed. Likewise, bear in mind that some people are far more charismatic in person; so if conversation isn’t flowing online don’t rule out the possibility of a date. 

If you keep an open mind and a positive approach it’s far more likely that you’ll meet someone who’s right for you, and when you do you’ll know it’s been worth the wait! 






Now you’re a bit more clued in on online dating tips, tricks and etiquette, head back to our main website to create your FREE HelloYou account. 

For more dating advice, anecdotes and ideas for improving your profile, browse through the rest of the HelloYou blog.